My deepest condolences during this difficult time. I did not know Mrs. Abernethy personally, but reading her story just put a smile on my face. What memories you have to share for many of generations to come. As I am sure she would agree this is a difficult time for all of you, but at Psalm 46:1 it tells us that God is our refuge and our strength, a help that is readily found in times of distress, pray for him for strength. He will help you (Isaiah 41:10) because he cares for you. May you find strength in your family and friends during this difficult time. Take Care.